Ubushake bwo gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina buratandukanye bitewe n’umuntu, imyaka, imisemburo n’imiterere y’ubuzima bwe. Hari abagore bagira ubushake bwinshi kurusha abandi, kandi ibyo ubwabyo ntibivuze ko bafite ikibazo cy’ubuzima.
Inzobere mu buzima zigaragaza ko hari ibintu bitandukanye bishobora kugira uruhare mu kongera ubushake bw’imibonano mpuzabitsina ku bagore.
1. Impinduka z’imisemburo
Umusemburo wa testosterone ugira uruhare mu bushake bw’imibonano mpuzabitsina ku bagore no ku bagabo. Impinduka z’imisemburo itandukanye zishobora gutuma ubushake bw’umugore bwiyongera cyangwa bukagabanuka.
Icyakora, ubushake bwinshi ntibuhita busobanura ko umugore afite testosterone nyinshi, kuko hari n’izindi mpamvu zibugiramo uruhare.
2. Gutwita n’ihindagurika ry’umubiri
Mu gihe cyo gutwita, imisemburo n’imigendekere y’amaraso mu mubiri birahinduka. Ibi bishobora gutuma ubushake bw’imibonano bwiyongera ku bagore bamwe, mu gihe abandi bushobora kubagabanukiraho.
3. Imiterere y’ubuzima bwo mu mutwe
Imimerere imwe n’imwe y’ubuzima bwo mu mutwe, nka bipolar disorder, ishobora kujyana n’izamuka rikabije ry’ingufu, kugabanyuka kw’ibitotsi no kwiyongera kw’imyitwarire ishobora gushyira umuntu mu kaga, harimo n’imyitwarire ijyanye n’imibonano mpuzabitsina.
Iyo impinduka nk’izi zibayeho, ni ngombwa kugisha inama inzobere mu buzima.
4. Inzoga, ibiyobyabwenge n’imiti imwe n’imwe
Inzoga n’ibiyobyabwenge bishobora guhindura ubushobozi bwo gufata ibyemezo n’imyitwarire y’umuntu. Imiti imwe na yo ishobora kugira ingaruka ku bushake bw’imibonano, bitewe n’ubwoko bwayo n’uko umubiri w’umuntu uyakira.
5. Igihe cy’uburumbuke n’impinduka zisanzwe z’umubiri
Ku bagore bamwe, ubushake bw’imibonano bushobora kwiyongera mu gihe cyegereye uburumbuke. Ibi bishobora guterwa n’impinduka zisanzwe z’imisemburo mu gihe cy’imihango.
Icyakora, uko ubushake bw’umugore buhinduka biratandukanye bitewe n’imiterere y’umubiri we.
6. Ikibazo cyo kurangiza kenshi kandi bidashingiye ku bushake
Hari ikibazo cy’ubuzima kizwi nka persistent genital arousal disorder (PGAD), aho umuntu ashobora kugira ibyiyumvo bikomeye kandi bidashakishwa mu gitsina, bikamubangamira mu buzima bwa buri munsi. Ibi bishobora kubaho nubwo adafite ubushake bwo gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina.
Iki kibazo gitandukanye no kugira ubushake bwinshi busanzwe, kandi gisaba kwisuzumisha kwa muganga.
Ni ryari umugore akwiriye kugana muganga?
Kugira ubushake bwinshi si indwara ubwayo. Ariko iyo bwiyongereye mu buryo butunguranye, bukabangamira akazi, amasomo, ibitotsi cyangwa ubuzima busanzwe, ni byiza kugisha inama muganga kugira ngo harebwe impamvu yabyo.
Ni ngombwa kandi kwirinda gufata imiti igabanya imisemburo utabanje kugirwa inama n’inzobere mu buvuzi.
Ubushake bw’imibonano mpuzabitsina buratandukanye ku bantu. Kuba umugore abugira bwinshi ntibihita bivuga ko arwaye cyangwa ko afite imisemburo idasanzwe; icy’ingenzi ni ukureba niba hari izindi mpinduka z’ubuzima cyangwa niba ubwo bushake bumubangamira.